Monday, October 31, 2011

A Word to share

Today is the last day of October? Where has it gone? Seems like just yesterday it was my daughter's birthday and her first Halloween all at once. This is my favorite time of year and also the part of the year that seems to zoom by the fastest.  January - March seem to drag. 

This year Braden was Mario. I really didn't like it at all.  I don't know why, I just didn't. MacKenzie couldn't decide on what she wanted to be so guess what she was??? Herself. We done things different this year. In the years passed we would always pick a subdivision and make our rounds, this year we stopped at a church and done the trunk or treating thing. I liked it much better. Braden got to play in some bounce houses. MacKenzie said that in the end she was glad she didn't dress up. She said, "mom, I am to grown up for this, so for now I'll enjoy watching Braden". Such a sweet girl.

This morning I had a very moving time with God. He spoke to me today and told me to share it with you all. I'll tell you what I think then I'll tell you what he told me.

When our kids are little they sit in our laps, talk to us till they are breathless. We get in the floor with them and play. Whatever we do is cool, it's fun. They feel connected and involved. They love the time. Well while I was meditating on all of this God told me in order to keep the strong bond I have now with my kids, as they get older, together my kids and I must decide on an activity that we like doing together. Something that is our thing, and we must make it a point to do it & do it often.  As they grow our activities with them will grow and evolve. We must give them memories and experiences that they will cherish and not just remember but pass down to their kids. Lots of people think an inheritance is money & possessions, to me it's something money can't buy and possessions can't be exchanged for.

Monday, October 3, 2011

It's Never to Late....

So who ever said "it's never to late to become what you might have been." was speaking the truth. All to often we fall down, but don't quite get back up again. Of course we don't get back up for a number of reasons.  One of them being because we are afraid to fail.  Afraid that success won't be ours for the taking. Another reason is because we are afraid those around us will make fun of us or say oh here she goes again.  Whatever the reasons why we do or don't do something is not and should not be up for debate or to be judged. You never know the reason, just decide if you are going to stand in support of that person and cheer them on. If you can't say something nice, remember don't say anything at all.

Well there is my 2cents for the day.